First and Last

Posted on 13 May 2013 by jendavid91

There are evenings like tonight that I am sure I will remember in thirty years. There’s nothing remarkable about tonight, just a quiet evening at home, only it entails being forced to watch the school’s football field undergo a Cinderella transformation into my way-too-soon college graduation. And as such, I am overcome with a simultaneous sense of relief and panic – causing me to nearly freak out at the sight of the stage being built with a near “WAIT I AM NOT READY TO LEAVE”. But alas, no one would hear me, so I will spare my neighbors the screaming.

Graduating college is funny – you spend so long thinking about what school to choose, and then what classes to choose, what dorms to live in, and which textbooks to buy or rent. I remember matriculation four years ago, sitting in the crowd of my new classmates, a pit in my stomach trying to quell my intestines from causing a scene. To think about how sick I have been these past few years – the sheer number of doctors’ appointments, pills swallowed, IV attempts, hospitalizations, scars now icing my abdomen, and an ostomy bag carefully tucked into my dress, it seems unbelievable. But I want to be clear and direct – college was an amazing experience, and while I perhaps had far from the typical four-year journey, I have so loved my time at school and done some wonderful things.

When I was graduating high school, people who didn’t know me well cautioned me with wrinkled noses that I should stay home, I was – after all – sick, and why would I want to go to school in another country? My parents, undaunted by my persistence in school choice, willingly sent me on my way (okay, not so willingly when it came to saying goodbye, but that I’m guessing is a normative going-off-to-college right of passage). I found friends who saw beyond my disease, who have laughed with me, brought me extra clothes in the hospital, met my doctors, and made cupcakes in my kitchen. I have done community service and had a job serving under-resourced preschools all four years. I have been doing research since freshman year, did a senior thesis and got a grant, and am being awarded a Psychology Research award at graduation. I’m graduating with honors. I have perfected my Patrick Dempsey addiction, finally understood how to use Tumblr, hiked Machu Picchu, ran a half-marathon, and never pulled an all-nighter. And just before graduating and really entering the ‘real’ world (whatever that actually means), I even went on a first date – make that second, compliments of vegan ice cream.

The point to the rambling – I went to college. I went to college with Crohn’s. I went to college and was sick. I went to college and had surgeries. But, I went to college. I went to college and did it in four years and am graduating. I did it. I did not do it alone, but I did it. And so can you or your child or your best friend or that new patient you had in clinic today who was frightened and sick.

As an English minor, I took a class this semester that centered around literary non-fiction. The final class project was to write an essay of our own – mine was a braided essay about the history of Crohn’s (look it up, the story is fascinating!) and my own personal experiences. I even interviewed my GI for the piece. After being undecided about the title for literally weeks on end, my roommates finally prompted me to accept the working title of ‘Not Where I Thought I Would Be’ – and they, as usual, were right. At one part in the piece, I wrote that my GI understands that even though I may be broken, I am not breakable. I sent him the essay, which he so kindly read, and sent me an email response. “I would dispute one thing,” he wrote. “You are not broken. You are whole.” And while the thought was enough to leave a permanent grin on my face and make me feel incredibly lucky and honored to have such a compassionate doctor, it made me think – he’s right. I am whole.

In pediatric chronic illness, the focus is often on what’s broken. Your ESR is too high, you don’t like taking injections, you miss school to see the doctor, band-aids dot your arms to remind you where blood was taken. There are pictures of your gut, all twisted and inflamed, the pharmacist knows you by name, your medical chart has several volumes. But we forget to remind ourselves of something really important – we’re still kids, we’re still growing, we’re still dreaming. Our bodies may be in need of support, but our souls and spirits and whole. Be it going to college or anything else, having a chronic illness is only part of the equation.

If the last few weeks have proved anything to me, it’s that life is always happening – even if it means my college graduation will be here sooner than I want. There are still so many firsts in store for me, so many exciting things ahead, and yes, enough challenges (both health-related and other) to keep me busy. Perhaps it’s not where I thought I would be, but to be honest, I’m pretty darn happy I ended up right where I belonged.

Jennie

Kicking Up Confidence

Posted on 9 May 2013 by samisophia

My lucky parents were blessed with a child who not only won the IBD lottery, but long before that diagnosis, had a severe reaction from eating a nut at age two. Growing up with a life-threatening nut allergy, I became accustomed to standing out from my friends long before my IBD diagnosis – but that is a story for another time. The point here is, I mastered the game of careful avoidance from a young age. Although I was not sensitive to the smell of nuts, I would take care not to even hang out in the same room as any. I was taught well that they were the enemy, and the farther away I stayed, the safer I felt.

So, you can imagine my surprise (read: horror) when, on my very first college campus tour, our guide announced that one of the distinguishing features of the campus was a large courtyard brimming with pecan shells. I stuck to the sidewalk when the group walked through the (admittedly beautiful) pit of possible death, trying hard not to let this unexpected development spoil a day that had been wonderful up until that moment.

I came home disappointed but determined. I returned for a second campus visit prepared. After two rounds of allergen testing (including literally walking into my allergist’s office with a bag of pecans and asking that we rub them all over my feet), we confirmed that although I had not outgrown my oral allergy to pecans, I did not have a skin allergy. So, one year later, I returned to that pecan court – and despite the March cold – donned flip flops and stomped all around that thing. My heart was racing, but I had to prove to myself that I could do it.

I was literally walking, kicking, and dancing through a Pit of Things that Could Kill Me.

But I did it. And nothing happened.

Three years later, I walk through that pecan court at least once a day. And sometimes, I feel a little surge of victory. I can do what I once thought I couldn’t do. Other times, though, I feel a pecan shell slip beneath the sole of my shoe and rub up against my foot – and despite the overwhelming evidence that I won’t react – I still look for a hive to pop up. I am safe – but I can never erase that twinge of fear and doubt.

IBD is similar in some ways.

I have been in remission for over two years. But in that moment I see a red-tinge on the toilet paper, my mind inevitably begins to race off in directions I know it shouldn’t go. I’ll think, ‘This is it. This is the first drop, and tomorrow there will be two drops, and then in a week there will be red all over the bowl, and then I will be on Prednisone, and I should go freak out now.’ I always manage to regain my common sense by the time I finally flush that terrible industrial grade skin-irritating toilet paper away, but the panic never fails to set in for just a moment there. Even now.

I know remission is not a cure, and thus I am always ready to lose it. When I feel an abdominal cramp come on, I know I should go straight to the conclusion that it’s just my menstrual cycle. That’s the most likely conclusion, and for three years, that has been what it always turns out to be – but my mind never goes there first, even now. Perhaps it’s a coping mechanism for when the day does come that I slip out of my remission – as if I think I’ll find comfort in saying, ‘Well, at least I knew this was coming.’

Living with a chronic illness, I am always walking through a pit of danger. Right now, I’m protected, my treatment is doing its job, but I know my armor is unlikely to last me forever. My 6mp probably won’t hold off my immune system until I’m old and gray, but in the absence of a cure, my disease isn’t going anywhere. Even my medications could hurt me one day.

But, just like with my nut allergy, there are things I can do to protect myself. I can take my meds on schedule. I can check in with my doctor every three months. I can be alert to my body and bowel movements so that I catch bumps in the road before they progress to flares. I can avoid behaviors and foods that might trigger problems, and do my best to keep my body healthy and rested.

It’s important to know what I can’t do, but it’s equally important to know what I can do. I can walk through that pecan court. And, with a touch of luck and a lot of cooperation as an engaged patient, I can be an IBDer who hangs on to that remission for what I hope will be a good long time. It’s important to know where I stand, but even more important to walk with confidence through wherever I am – whether it’s the sidewalk or a courtyard of pecans, remission or a flare.

IBD was certainly unexpected and (if I let myself become preoccupied with all the what-if’s of my disease) can be unnerving, but I am walking, kicking, and dancing through it.

Making the Team

Posted on 23 April 2013 by samisophia

In October 2012, I arrived wide-eyed and a little afraid at my first ImproveCareNow Learning Session. I remember walking into the big room with my luggage and taking in the scene – so many brilliant clinicians and researchers I admired and greatly respected all in one hotel for one weekend. And here I was, too. I am nineteen – and so to many, I’m just a kid still. I didn’t know what to expect, but I did expect to listen more than I spoke. After all, in a room full of some of my personal heroes, I was “just a patient.”

As the inaugural Patient Scholars, to say that Jennie and I have been given the opportunity to live a dream would be an understatement. For a girl who expected to listen far more than she spoke, my voice has been valued more than I could ever have hoped or imagined. Jennie and I are just two patients – but to think about how many patient voices can and will resonate at future Learning Sessions excites me more than I can express. It’s so clear to me now that “Just a patient” is not a concept that exists in ImproveCareNow.

On April 12th I returned to Chicago for the first Learning Session of 2013. Gutsy 2 (myself) may have been without her Gutsy 1 (Jennie) – but together through the art of virtual communication and the help of some friends, we didn’t let a sudden strike of illness take away our weekend of hard work and joyous celebration. We shared in a presentation on self-management support and treatment adherence. We opened up about our stories and the accomplishments of the PAC (Patient Advisory Council) over the past year. We were inspired by stories of progress and achievement coming from all around the network. I even learned a new dance – the PDSA – aptly named after a fundamental quality improvement measure – because QI is really at the heart of making care better and thus rightfully deserved a spot at the heart of the celebration! (I expect PDSA to go viral on YouTube any day now.)

For a moment, when I landed in Chicago, I felt that familiar sudden shock of fear. For just a moment, I felt little again, like I was “just a patient” with a lot of ideas on the fringes of a great big community. But, this time, when I entered the conference room, I knew I belonged in this community. In one year’s time, it’s my hope that more patients will have felt the joy of this kind of welcome.

Five years ago today, I was waking up early – colon all cleaned out – and driving to the hospital with my mom, neither of us knowing I wouldn’t be going home that day or that a whole new world was about to welcome us. Six months ago, when I arrived in Chicago for my very first Learning Session, I couldn’t have even imagined myself standing in front of such a brilliant crowd and sharing my story – a story that only just begins with a diagnosis and hardship – on the level I did last weekend. Today, I can’t imagine what comes next – but I know I’m humbled to have a voice that can share in the learning. I am eager to pass on the torch of leadership to the next Patient Scholars – because we all have stories, and many of the stories I heard last weekend touched me deeply and reminded me of why I do this.

I do this because, right now, another young girl and her mom are driving to the hospital – and they don’t know what comes next – but I do.

That young girl will get better. And maybe, if we all reach our hands out together to say that everyone can make a difference and is valued on our team, she’ll be able to help change care for the better for the next girl with IBD.

Like any good team, we are more than the names on the backs of our jerseys when we unite. In this Network we are more than the names we go by: patient, parent, researcher, clinician. I am so proud to have a jersey on the ImproveCareNow team.

Together, we have quite the winning streak. And one day, I really do believe that we will achieve that cure, together.

Pre-Visit Planning

Posted on 3 April 2013 by ImproveCareNow

Imagine being a patient who arrives at the clinic and can really sense that the providers are ready to meet your needs!

Imagine knowing that your whole care team sat down a week in advance to review your disease course over the last six months, track down any missing lab results, and troubleshoot with colleagues to figure out why it’s been so tough to keep your disease in remission. Imagine getting a call from the nurse a full week before clinic to ask what has been going on since your last visit and, as a result, the social worker is in clinic and ready to discuss solutions to the issues you are having at school. Imagine the lab having your orders well in advance so that the collection tube that they have to use, but don’t keep stocked, is ready and waiting. This time you don’t have to wait while they run down to the supply room, making you late for school and your parents late for work.

The automated pre-visit planning tools that ImproveCareNow centers are now able to use will help make scenarios just like these a reality. Providers will have detailed summary information about their patients available at their fingertips when they need it…before the visit. They will have a concise, printable tool that can be easily shared with the rest of the care team. Ideally, this tool will be used to guide conversations with parents and patients before they come to clinic so that they can be a part of planning their visit, not just passive participants in it.

The result will be more reliable, proactive and individualized pediatric IBD care.

[editor's note: submitted by Sarah Myers, MPH, RN | Lead Quality Improvement Consultant for the ImproveCareNow Network]

It’s Good To Have A Voice

Posted on 15 March 2013 by samisophia

I’m a big proponent of the patient voice. It’s only natural for me. My second grade teacher actually nicknamed me “She Who Is As Loud As Thunder” for a Thanksgiving program. I was a loud kid, and any of my friends will tell you I haven’t changed much. IBD was a temporary knock down, but it didn’t take me long to get up. On my second day in the hospital after diagnosis, I was making a list of questions for my doctor. I didn’t have the courage to say them just then, but I was making the list and handing it off to my mom. I’ve always been opinionated and talkative, so becoming an engaged patient was an inevitability.

So my speechlessness took me by surprise when a professor asked my class (Literature & Illness – sounds like the best class ever, right?) to characterize what it means to be a patient in one word. It was the one word part that stumped me. I can speak my thoughts as a patient in blogs and essays and whatnot, but one word? Coincidentally, I was the final student to be asked, so I was able to listen to my classmates’ answers first. The word powerless came up a lot.

And it occurred to me – I’ve rarely felt powerless in my care. Lonely? Yes. Frustrated? I would have shouted that word at you when my Prednisone taper failed back in sophomore year. Scared? Here and there. But powerless? Rarely, if ever. Why? Because I’ve always been allowed to have a voice. My voice has never been shot down. I’ve never needed to settle for being quiet – and maybe that’s why I feel powerful in my care.

Having a voice has allowed me to feel comfortable with my treatment plan. It’s allowed me to feel okay asking questions. Lists don’t get passed over to my mom anymore. It’s certainly made me feel prepared for the ultimate transfer to adult care in a couple of years. Most of all, having a voice in my care has given me the confidence to be comfortable with my life with IBD. I would say that’s quite the opposite of powerless.

Take this week. I’m waiting in the mail-room to pick up my seven week supply of enemas, which came in a very big box. A very big box at least twice my width. And in college, a big box typically indicates (a) cool new furniture or (b) a very special care package from someone who loves you a lot. So, naturally, one of my friends got very excited when my box and I made it back to my dorm. And while I won’t deny that my mother loves me a lot, the contents of the box weren’t quite what my friend was expecting. The best part – after she figured it out, we had the greatest laugh. Two years ago, this might have been awkward. Instead, it was just a hilarious moment among friends. I felt comfortable enough to control the situation and make what easily could have been a negative situation into a positive one.

This is the reason I’m such a big advocate for patient involvement in care. There are the obvious reasons – it contributes to better adherence, psychosocial adjustment, and understanding of their disease. But I believe, most importantly, when patients are enthusiastically encouraged to join in the decision-making process – and given the resources to do so effectively – their confidence can skyrocket. I’m certainly a more confident young adult after having IBD for a few years than I was before, and I know my experiences with IBD have been a huge factor in my development.

Whether it’s feeling comfortable enough to laugh in my doctor’s appointments or laugh over my friend’s reaction to a box of enemas, it’s the same feeling that’s hit me lately. It’s good to have a voice.

Back to class, when it came my turn to define a patient in a single word, I chose changed. That’s really what it is and should be when it comes to the patient voice – not the loss of a voice, but a changed voice. A voice that needs to learn how to join in harmony with others to form a unified care team, but still a voice that can be heard loud and clear.